Mostly people are not mad at me for this but for other things I guess. In fact I have had a foreigner come back and thank me several years later for the effor

Mostly people are not mad at me for this but for other things I guess. In fact I have had a foreigner come back and thank me several years later for the effort I put in for her and there are several others that seem happy evertime I meet them. (HN is a weird place though. Here I am racist according to many peoples definitions.)