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As someone who made the trip in the opposite direction (American who moved to Germany at 24), you totally should. I meant to spend 2-3 years skiing, seeing cast
by MandieD 6y ago
As someone who made the trip in the opposite direction (American who moved to Germany at 24), you totally should. I meant to spend 2-3 years skiing, seeing castles and drinking tasty beer, but met a nice German guy a year into it, and am now 40 and expecting our first kid.
About that: I’m delighted to still be living in Germany and to be with my husband, but had my American-centric brain fully taken in that he had no interest in living in the US despite having enjoyed his master’s program at Wisconsin, I possibly wouldn’t have gotten seriously involved with him.
Make sure anyone you date more than casually understands your true level of interest in remaining in the US long-term, and earlier in the relationship than you’d think it would make sense.
Financial: your worldwide investments may be taxable while you’re a US resident, and the way non-US mutual funds are taxed is a nightmare. If you have any, you may want to look into selling them before moving. You will then want to consider selling your US-based funds before moving back, depending on how your home country taxes them. Ask a tax advisor based in the country you’re moving to for advice, though.
- mmmmmbop 6y agoCongratulations on the kid! I hope Germany continues to treat you well and that you enjoy the country. Thanks for bringing up the relationship perspective. That's something I hadn't considered. To my Europe-centric brain, it seems like Europe is a much safer place to raise a kid, so as of today, I would certainly plan to return one day.