I tend to suffer from this, only in the _other_ dirrection, in that I forget when I give something or I add something or I help with something or I forget confl

I tend to suffer from this, only in the _other_ dirrection, in that I forget when I give something or I add something or I help with something or I forget conflicts with people and slights reeal easy. My mistakes and failures, I remember vividly. Does that set me up for anti-success I wonder?