You know, I actually think you've got a point to make and I can see the shape of it, but you're so inept at expressing yourself that you come across as either c

You know, I actually think you've got a point to make and I can see the shape of it, but you're so inept at expressing yourself that you come across as either completely misunderstanding or just plain wrong. I guess this is still an insulting thing to say, but at least it's not wrapped in snark or passive-aggression.