Nothing like that. And its not either or. You can have both side by side or just one or the other. It depends on your Personality type and Needs. We are born

Nothing like that. And its not either or. You can have both side by side or just one or the other. It depends on your Personality type and Needs. We are born unconscious of both. And take time to learn them. And learning about the needs and personality types of others and realizing there is a huge spectrum that has nothing to do with yours takes even longer. So making contact with Beauty is never confined to how someone else did it. Its good to be aware of all the routes though. And sample as many as you can.