> > But the perpetrator will know that they'll be at the top of the list if anything happens to you > just tell your friends and family But then the dangerous

> > But the perpetrator will know that they'll be at the top of the list if anything happens to you > just tell your friends and family But then the dangerous person won't know that they know? Or one would tell him "btw I've told my partner and parents about this"? -- hmm I'd be worried I then created risk for them