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Nonviolent communication seems to be reasonably popular here, but I must admit that that quote comes of as extremely condescending and manipulative to me.
by tomjen3 6y ago
Nonviolent communication seems to be reasonably popular here, but I must admit that that quote comes of as extremely condescending and manipulative to me.
- qqn 6y agoI have found it helps assuming kindness and sincerity from the other end. When this works, it works well. I was reminded of this thought: "No matter how considerate you are, or how much effort you put into avoiding my triggers, the total freedom in the world does not increase until I learn to release the grip they have on me." (https://twitter.com/RichDecibels/status/1197769030880419841 https://twitter.com/RichDecibels/status/1197769030880419841)