> So deciding to have kids, even if you have to give something up, is not some selfless or noble act, as parent said Is anyone actually seriously suggesting th

> So deciding to have kids, even if you have to give something up, is not some selfless or noble act, as parent said Is anyone actually seriously suggesting that the decision itself is an act of sacrifice? Surely it's kind of super obvious that the sacrifices are in raising the children, not in deciding to have them?