I think the real common trait of successful people is a willingness to hold unpopular/anti-orthodox views, even in the face of scrutiny and criticism. Being a s

I think the real common trait of successful people is a willingness to hold unpopular/anti-orthodox views, even in the face of scrutiny and criticism. Being a sociopath like Jobs probably makes it easier to do this, but is not necessary - you can be highly successful and avoid the traps of common wisdom while being kind and even pleasant.