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Not to throw a mean comment, but i think maybe it can help you in your life by giving you an external feedback : i hope you don't have this kind of attitude in

by bsaul 6y ago

Not to throw a mean comment, but i think maybe it can help you in your life by giving you an external feedback : i hope you don't have this kind of attitude in real life, because it instantly makes you look like an pretentious prick and loose any credit. Your original comment made me curious, and this one loose any interest in what your point of view actually is. (fyi : HN is (mostly) a developer community with usually knowledgeable people working in the field. if you don't think explaining yourself here is worth it, i have no idea where you think you're going to have the opportunity to give your opinion)

cxr 6y ago
> i hope you don't have this kind of attitude in real life [...] you look like an pretentious prick Yeesh. I don't even know what attitude you're referring to. You've set out to give some life advice, but do you know how real life conversations work? Can you understand that my response will differ greatly depending on what the answer to that question is? It's pretty normal for dialogues to be... dialogues, which includes checking in with each other instead of monologuing based on a lack of shared agreement. > if you don't think explaining yourself here is worth it Once again, what are you even talking about? You're responding to something you've imagined I've said or something you want to attribute to me, not what I've actually said or am thinking. Can you wait for ragnese's reply and then my response before going off the deep end?
cjaybo 6y ago
From the guidelines: > Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith. Ironically, by assuming bad faith and a condescending tone in the comment you responded to, you've made a legitimately condescending comment.
- magic_quotes 6y ago
  Personally, I think the put-down was quite on point. I don't see the point of flagging it, that just leaves the content to imagination.
  - dang 6y ago
    Anyone can see flagkilled comments, or any [dead] comments, by turning 'showdead' on in their profile. Just be warned that most of what you'll see is comments by banned users. Occasionally we get emails from people who don't realize that and somehow assume that moderators are condoning the worst dreck that appears there.

by bsaul 6y ago

cxr 6y ago

> i hope you don't have this kind of attitude in real life [...] you look like an pretentious prick Yeesh. I don't even know what attitude you're referring to. You've set out to give some life advice, but do you know how real life conversations work? Can you understand that my response will differ greatly depending on what the answer to that question is? It's pretty normal for dialogues to be... dialogues, which includes checking in with each other instead of monologuing based on a lack of shared agreement. > if you don't think explaining yourself here is worth it Once again, what are you even talking about? You're responding to something you've imagined I've said or something you want to attribute to me, not what I've actually said or am thinking. Can you wait for ragnese's reply and then my response before going off the deep end?

cjaybo 6y ago

From the guidelines: > Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith. Ironically, by assuming bad faith and a condescending tone in the comment you responded to, you've made a legitimately condescending comment.

magic_quotes 6y ago
Personally, I think the put-down was quite on point. I don't see the point of flagging it, that just leaves the content to imagination.
- dang 6y ago
  Anyone can see flagkilled comments, or any [dead] comments, by turning 'showdead' on in their profile. Just be warned that most of what you'll see is comments by banned users. Occasionally we get emails from people who don't realize that and somehow assume that moderators are condoning the worst dreck that appears there.