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I always get excited when I see a position like this that embraces competence and seems excited at rising to the challenges of learning. There are so many meme
by wellpast 6y ago
I always get excited when I see a position like this that embraces competence and seems excited at rising to the challenges of learning.
There are so many meme-ish ideas that circulate that seem embraced precisely because they tacitly claim to remove the challenges of life and learning and becoming competent.
Worried you're not competent enough? Oh, that's just "Imposter Syndrome", don't worry about it, we all have it, you don't need to do anything to address it.
Of course there are feelings of insecurity that go too far and it's helpful to have a compassion for ourselves.
But I think more important is to not couple our self-worth to our competence. The tacit and wrong assumption behind "Imposter Syndrome" (and many aspects of our culture) is the idea that our self-worth and competence are connected.
It's okay to be incompetent at something; life is too short to master everything. But if you do make a conscious decision to grow your competence, then you should respect that it is going to be effort, you should even get excited about that effort, and yes, self-doubt, is essential in following through on that effort.