> I don't want to rely on my soft skills or work connections to set me up in the future Maybe don't rely, but please don't feel bad about using work connection

> I don't want to rely on my soft skills or work connections to set me up in the future Maybe don't rely, but please don't feel bad about using work connections. And it's not necessarily a matter of "set me up": If you work well with someone at one company, you'll probably work well with them at another. It's win-win.