> Why should she self-examine? To adhere to your standards for behavior? I believe "lack of self-examination" is code for "she expresses views I find distastef

> Why should she self-examine? To adhere to your standards for behavior? I believe "lack of self-examination" is code for "she expresses views I find distasteful, that I believe she would change if she self-examined. I also want to imply she has not done so and kept her views".