this is a very un-HN answer, and i wish i had something sexier for you, but: Excel. we look at statements from our various accounts, enter into a data tab, the

this is a very un-HN answer, and i wish i had something sexier for you, but: Excel. we look at statements from our various accounts, enter into a data tab, then group expenses into categories: house (elec, water, cable, etc), food, vehicles (gas, tolls, oil, loan, etc) fun (spotify, netflix, etc). as the saying goes, you cant manage what you dont measure.