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>Just because someone gets a lot of attention, that doesn't mean they're going around having endless casual sex or unlimited girlfriends. I'd say that's untrue
by bluntfang 6y ago
>Just because someone gets a lot of attention, that doesn't mean they're going around having endless casual sex or unlimited girlfriends.
I'd say that's untrue if you're participating in a fairly healthy poly community.
- warent 6y agoIf someone said "Just because an apple is red, that doesn't mean it's a red delicious.", why would you reply "I'd say that's untrue if the apple is a red delicious." I'm not sure what this is called, but your statement is basically just redundantly agreeing with me. Edited for clarification.
- bluntfang 6y agoI am not agreeing with you. Every poly community I've brushed with is filled will casual sex, especially the people who are given lots of attention.
- warent 6y agoAhh I see. So, your original comment "definitely see this in my scene. the most attractive guys have many partners while the lesser ones don't have that many. more attractive guys are fought over and rifts are created because of it. It's really funny because a lot of them consider themselves anarchists politically...yet the few attractive men seem to dominate." was specifically referring to poly communities. I thought you meant this was your experience in general, regardless of monogamy or polyamory. We were talking past each other because my comments were basically saying "It isn't like this in general" but you never intended to communicate that claim. You were only talking about specific situations.