> Sorry dude, I don’t have a phone. Are we on for 7 or not? And yet people make plans with him? I would expect "Never mind, we'll try some other night when I d

> Sorry dude, I don’t have a phone. Are we on for 7 or not? And yet people make plans with him? I would expect "Never mind, we'll try some other night when I don't have anything else going on" and then a call to almost anyone less intentionally difficult to deal with.