If having kids is profitable or not is open debate. Most people I know would love to have kids but they don't want to have them with a wrong person. And what

If having kids is profitable or not is open debate. Most people I know would love to have kids but they don't want to have them with a wrong person. And what is considered "wrong" have changed over time. Many people want to have kids on their own terms, not the terms of their partner. They want to have zero compromise in personal freedom - so they don't takers for that offer resulting in them not having any kids.