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I don't think there's eternal shame to dole out. I think it's perfectly equivalent to say if you give someone lifelong trauma that the result should be lifelong
by TeaDrunk 6y ago
I don't think there's eternal shame to dole out. I think it's perfectly equivalent to say if you give someone lifelong trauma that the result should be lifelong consequences, including that people don't want to affiliate with you.
- jholman 6y ago> if you give someone lifelong trauma that the result should be lifelong consequences That is a terrible plan. There's no restoration there, only retribution. We can do better than an eye for an eye.
- TeaDrunk 6y agoRestoration is a consequence. But additionally, I don't think anyone should be morally obliged to befriend someone who did something against their moral code. For example, if I had a friend who I understood to have committed CSA there is no timeline of which I would be okay with continuing to be their friend.