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Here are some of my favorite Epictetus quotes: Chapter 8 Don’t hope that events will turn out the way you want, welcome events in whatever way they happen: thi
by dr_dshiv 6y ago
Here are some of my favorite Epictetus quotes:
Chapter 8
Don’t hope that events will turn out the way you want, welcome events in whatever way they happen: this is the path to peace.
Chapter 9
Sickness is a problem for the body, not the mind -- unless the mind decides that it is a problem. Lameness, too, is the body’s problem, not the mind’s. Say this to yourself whatever the circumstance and you will find without fail that the problem pertains to something else, not to you.
Chapter 10
For every challenge, remember the resources you have within you to cope with it. Provoked by the sight of a handsome man or a beautiful woman, you will discover within you the contrary power of self-restraint. Faced with pain, you will discover the power of endurance. If you are insulted, you will discover patience. In time, you will grow to be confident that there is not a single impression that you will not have the moral means to tolerate.
Chapter 14
You are a fool to want your children, wife or friends to be immortal; it calls for powers beyond you, and gifts not yours to either own or give. You can, however, avoid meeting with disappointment in your desires; focus on this, then, since it is the scope of your capacities. We are at the mercy of whoever wields authority over the things we desire or detest. If you would be free, then, do not wish to have, or avoid things that other people control, because then you must serve as their slave.
- indigochill 6y ago> ...avoid things that other people control, because then you must serve as their slave. A good mantra for self-hosted FOSS as well, come to think of it.
- ralls_ebfe 6y agoBut is it really? I just read a german translation, which says to neither wish to have, nor to wish to avoid. Does anyone here know enough greek to clarify this?
- ralls_ebfe 6y agoAnother translation: > Whoever then wishes to be free, let him neither wish for any thing nor avoid anything which depends on others: if he does not observe this rule, he must be a slave. http://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.01.0236%3Atext%3Denc%3Achapter%3D14 http://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%...
- OJFord 6y agoThat was my (native British English) reading of the English too - it's just that GP's quote clips the context.
- indigochill 6y agoMy parsing of the sentence of the "neither wish to have" part is that the thing the other person controls is the object of this wish. So it still works if we extrapolate that to something like "If I was in control of this software, I would make it so much better." Well, congrats, because you are (in FOSS)! Even if someone else maintains a project, you can always fork it.
- ErikVandeWater 6y agoA lot of philosophy and "wisdom" is in telling people what they should do and probably already try to do without giving them the tools to do it. A wise person realizes it is silly to tell someone "Don't hope that events will turn out the way you want" without giving them real tools to address their feelings.
- NumberCruncher 6y agoThe stoics developed tools you are asking for. You can find a good summary of them in the book A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy.
- maximente 6y agothat's fair, although i will say that people tend to complicate these things to a ridiculous degree, coming up with a laundry list of reasons they can or cannot make strides towards these goals.
- jayrice257 6y agoPretty sure the practice of stoicism is more than toothless claims with no actionable ideas. Have you read much of it?
- riku_iki 6y ago> Sickness is a problem for the body, not the mind -- unless the mind decides that it is a problem Sickness can affect how mind works very significantly just because of blood chemistry.