Before the actual head-on collision the star would be spaghettified(that's actual term, see below) by the black hole's gravity and that... is not a silent proce

Before the actual head-on collision the star would be spaghettified(that's actual term, see below) by the black hole's gravity and that... is not a silent process, with exception of supermassive black holes. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spaghettification https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spaghettification