I was feeling quite calm. I'm not talking about payment processors so much as the degree to which people feel "either" when they could feel "both." Divisivene

I was feeling quite calm. I'm not talking about payment processors so much as the degree to which people feel "either" when they could feel "both." Divisiveness is quite rampant, and I think the language we use (or don't use) has an effect. ie "Forget Google" -> why not both?