Also, don't blindly accept it when people tell you that you _can_ do something but "you're just overthinking things". They might not know that you are confused

Also, don't blindly accept it when people tell you that you _can_ do something but "you're just overthinking things". They might not know that you are confused about something and need clarity to succeed. Only you can read your own mind. Telling others can you see can make it more legible.