Look the point of education is that people who have travelled the road before you tell you what milestones you should meet - an education syllabus is the distil

Look the point of education is that people who have travelled the road before you tell you what milestones you should meet - an education syllabus is the distilled "you ought to" of hundreds or thousands of people's lives. But your actual life is a series of explorations - sure push yourself, but more important than anything is time to build relationships. especially with your kids if you have them.