The moderation as in "I don't want to see XYZ because offended" is easily solved. The moderation as in "I don't want the other guy to see XYZ because he's too s

The moderation as in "I don't want to see XYZ because offended" is easily solved. The moderation as in "I don't want the other guy to see XYZ because he's too stupid to realize the wrongs" is obviously not solvable because the other guy has his own ideas - double bind as dang pointed out.