How often have you had a brush-up against something on the scale of life and death? It can be a crazy experience. People come up with all sorts of rationaliza

How often have you had a brush-up against something on the scale of life and death? It can be a crazy experience. People come up with all sorts of rationalizations or decisions about "what it meant to them", good adaptations and bad ones. Let them do it, perhaps with a little less judgement. Be humble instead. Nobody completely has it all figured out.