agreed. i don't view people like him as competition at all, as their and my interests in the dating pool are nearly completely disjunct. that said, no one ever

agreed. i don't view people like him as competition at all, as their and my interests in the dating pool are nearly completely disjunct. that said, no one ever asked for anyone's "judgements" ever-- not here, nor anywhere else. but yet they have this shiny "comment" button, and i guess i just can't help myself... welcome to an online forum, where people share judgments (among other things).