The point isn't that I know she's having a panic attack. I'm not trying to force that to be the circumstance. But she could very well be having a legitimate ph

The point isn't that I know she's having a panic attack. I'm not trying to force that to be the circumstance. But she could very well be having a legitimate physiological response (of which a panic attack could be one)... in which case she's not "being an idiot". As long as it was a good faith emotional response, your conclusions still aren't warranted.