from the article: Interviews with large numbers of highly resilient individuals — those who have experienced a great deal of adversity and have come through it

from the article: Interviews with large numbers of highly resilient individuals — those who have experienced a great deal of adversity and have come through it successfully — show they share the following characteristics. -They have a positive, realistic outlook. They don’t dwell on negative information and instead look for opportunities in bleak situations, striving to find the positive within the negative. -They have a moral compass. Highly resilient people have a solid sense of what they consider right and wrong, and it tends to guide their decisions. -They have a belief in something greater than themselves. This is often found through religious or spiritual practices. The community support that comes from being part of a religion also enhances resilience. -They are altruistic; they have a concern for others and a degree of selflessness. They are often dedicated to causes they find meaningful and that give them a sense of purpose. -They accept what they cannot change and focus energy on what they can change. Dr. Southwick says resilient people reappraise a difficult situation and look for meaningful opportunities within it. -They have a mission, a meaning, a purpose. Feeling committed to a meaningful mission in life gives them courage and strength. -They have a social support system, and they support others. “Very few resilient people,” said Dr. Southwick, “go it alone.”