Don't be me wrong, I agree with your views - these are things I find offensive too, I'm just picking up the idea that something can be subjective and by definit

Don't be me wrong, I agree with your views - these are things I find offensive too, I'm just picking up the idea that something can be subjective and by definition offensive. That's contradictory - if it's offensive by definition, there is no room for interpretation by the subject and therefore it can not be subjective.