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It’s true that there are some very bad parents. It’s also true that no state run system has been as good as biological or adoptive parents for the vast majority
by rubidium 6y ago
It’s true that there are some very bad parents. It’s also true that no state run system has been as good as biological or adoptive parents for the vast majority of children... even those with negligent parents.
Only in extreme cases does one bad (taking a child away from parent figures) justify removing them and putting them in a state run system (another bad). There’s certainly a place for that, but it’s at the extremes.
Many would like to claim that the state should raise kids. That’s a stance that does great harm to parents and children alike.
- throwaway_pdp09 6y ago> Many would like to claim that the state should raise kids "Many"? Justify that. I've never heard anyone make such a broad and foolish generalisation. > ...There’s certainly a place for that, but it’s at the extremes. That's exactly what I'm saying, that those extremes do exist and need to be considered. I never suggested it generally. I was careful not to.