> Not everything we do/like/want comes from Hollywood, that's a stupid over simplification that some people use for their own peace of mind. This is also an ov

> Not everything we do/like/want comes from Hollywood, that's a stupid over simplification that some people use for their own peace of mind. This is also an oversimplification. The problem is that the movie and ad industries strongly reinforce and popularize and some standards. And export them to the whole world. > How does the media suggest that women will automatically find men attractive? My experience says otherwise. You have to be fit, have success in life, have money, have a beautiful smile, which is NOT what incels are. I agree and this is also part of the problem. Pushing some arbitrary standards onto men is also harmful. Unsurprisingly, a lot of people feel they insecure about themselves and angry about society. Sometimes this insecurity and anger fuels the sale of cosmetics, gym memberships, clothing and dubious "self-help" books. Sometimes it gets uglier. > All these "requisites" for a woman to find you attractive can be explained also from a biological point of view. Please hold on on the strong biological determinism. It's largely refuted by geneticists and anthropologist. Reality is way more complex.