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> Andrew Tanenbaum: I said that his work was amazing and thanked him. He shrugged me off. I think he felt busy or didn’t care. I was happy that he listened. I
by searchableguy 6y ago
> Andrew Tanenbaum: I said that his work was amazing and thanked him. He shrugged me off. I think he felt busy or didn’t care. I was happy that he listened.
I have the same reaction to people thanking me out of nowhere especially when I am deep into my own thoughts and it's awkward to say something after the shrug. The realisation comes latter. So there is a chance he did appreciate your thank you but couldn't reply back properly.
- mettamage 6y agoAh, that's also an explanation. I tend to take the most optimistic interpretation.
- P-NP 6y ago> So there is a chance he did appreciate your thank you but couldn't reply back properly. > I tend to take the most optimistic interpretation. Yes, always take the most optimistic interpretation compatible with the known facts. Best way to stay happy.