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Is your perception of yourself being a procrastinator a result of having "been indoctrinated from an early age to be productive, to schedule every moment"? Tak
by eeh 6y ago
Is your perception of yourself being a procrastinator a result of having "been indoctrinated from an early age to be productive, to schedule every moment"?
Taking a view from Positive Psychology, the ABCDE explanation for this thought pattern might go something like:
* [Activating event] You observe yourself not working on side projects
* [Belief] People without side projects or their own businesses are failures
* [Consequence] Label oneself a procrastinator, and feel bad
* [Disputation] People can have meaningful/successful lives without having side projects. People require maintenance in the form of leisure/downtime. Your procrastination is yourself striving for leisure/downtime.
* [Effect] Feel good about activities you previously labelled as procrastination.
I'm not qualified in this area, but this helps me, at least.
https://positivepsychology.com/albert-ellis-abc-model-rebt-cbt/ https://positivepsychology.com/albert-ellis-abc-model-rebt-c...