People don't generally "grant" or "deny" social experiences to others. That's not how that works. Being social means being interested in others with different

People don't generally "grant" or "deny" social experiences to others. That's not how that works. Being social means being interested in others with different backgrounds from your own, and meeting them halfway. People who work in very technical field are notorious for neglecting to do this, and as a consequence they aren't particularly interesting to people outside those fields. So yes, this is pretty much their fault, but it's not a death sentence, and it doesn't make them assholes. It just means they need to broaden their horizons a bit to make themselves more accessible and interesting to others.