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I don't get folks who feel so chained to their mobile phones. I have a cell phone. When I feel like using it to make calls, I make a call. When I feel like usin
by Anechoic 16y ago
I don't get folks who feel so chained to their mobile phones. I have a cell phone. When I feel like using it to make calls, I make a call. When I feel like using it to answer a call, I will answer it when a call comes in.
If I don't feel like answering a call, I simply don't. If the call is important, the caller will leave a message and I'll return it at my leisure. If the call is not important, often the caller will not leave a message and I'll just forget about it. The cell phone is there for my convenience and during the times it inconveniences me, it gets turned off. It's just a tool... control it, it doesn't have to control you.
I will say that I completely agree with her point about "glance[ing] surreptitiously down at the corner of the table to see who is calling/emailing/texting while we’re in the middle of a conversation." When I'm talking to someone you have my full attention (except for certain emergency circumstances which I will let you know about upfront) and would appreciate the same courtesy.
- danneu 16y agoArticle sounds similar to the anti-Facebook camp who outline a hypothetical 'if I did have a Facebook account' world where every one of their Facebook friends is spamming them with virtual Farmville goods and quips about Japan deserving the earthquake because of Pearl Harbor. In reality, it doesn't really happen. I have zero tolerance for people who interrupt a moment that demands undivided attention (like a date) by incessantly checking their cellphone. But all of my friends seem to have a reasonable handle on that. Uncourteous people are uncourteous people, but I certainly wouldn't evade a technology for fear of my friends being uncourteous.