I don't think this is going to be productive if you ignore the vast psychological research that shows this is not about intelligence or capability like you keep

I don't think this is going to be productive if you ignore the vast psychological research that shows this is not about intelligence or capability like you keep trying to argue and I have never said. This is not about a misunderstanding of language or "misassociation". This is about the very nature of humans. > and now you're wanting me or "us" to stop using the words coddling, triggering, and anger It's ironic this followed by accusing me of a straw man while doing that quite liberally to what I said. I said nothing of the words, I am referring to your line of argument. Those words are simply the typical ones that are often signifiers of the same argument which people have had to waste time on again and again instead of addressing the actual issue here, which I mentioned at length at this post and the parent but you didn't address at all.