Much of the advice I came to give has already been given in other comments (which is great). So I'll leave a piece of meta-advice: McIntyre's Law: Anything I t

Much of the advice I came to give has already been given in other comments (which is great). So I'll leave a piece of meta-advice: McIntyre's Law: Anything I tell you could be wrong under the right circumstances. Advice is more often than not, colored by the personal experiences of the person giving it.