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how do you get to not divorce? :)
by sebajuarez 6y ago
how do you get to not divorce? :)
- jacobtoronto 6y agoOne spouse cannot control the decisions of the other. If one spouse is bound and determined to leave the marriage, then I'm not sure there's much that can be done. However, I know from experience that as long as both are willing to try to save the marriage, there is hope, even with disagreements that seem painful and impossible. Counseling can help. Maintaining a positive vision of the future -- hope -- is motivating and can change one's perspective on the spouse. I don't mean to diminish your concern -- I acknowledge it: marriage is not easy! But I also believe there is a way to stay together in many instances, and that doing so is worth the risk and the sacrifice.