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Publicly shaming the guy for not wanting to take a public stance? Sounds pretty close to harassment the way these Twitter brigades can go.
by rboyd 6y ago
Publicly shaming the guy for not wanting to take a public stance? Sounds pretty close to harassment the way these Twitter brigades can go.
- baddox 6y agoWhere is the public shaming? Is there a difference between stating that you disagree with someone's actions and "public shaming?"
- saagarjha 6y agoPublicly disclosing a private conversation? No, not really.
- baddox 6y agoThat's still not public shaming, is it? It's not even a private conversation about private matters.
- cellularmitosis 6y agoYes, it was a private reply, which the facebook employee then outed publicly on twitter. >I asked @Vjeux to follow @reactjs's lead and add a statement of support to Recoil's docs and he privately refused, claiming open source shouldn't be political. That is 100% not ok.
- baddox 6y agoWhy is that not okay? Do you think that is sensitive private information? Or do you believe that no content of any private conversation should ever be publicized?
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- cellularmitosis 6y agoThey could be privately supportive of Black Lives Matter, donate to bail funds, spread the word under anonymized accounts, etc. But they might also work/live in a deeply conservative office/neighborhood. Forcing their hand at going public with their support could get them fired, or get their ass kicked the next time they go to the bar or get pulled over by a cop. And "find another job, then" isn't always practical, especially with marriage+kids+debt. And yes, you should always ask for consent before making a private reply public. I'm supportive of Black Lives Matter, but I don't think what OP did was ok.
- baddox 6y ago> They could be privately supportive of Black Lives Matter... Of course they could. This person didn't claim anything to the contrary. The complaint was not about the webmaster's personal beliefs, but rather about the webmaster's decision in their capacity as webmaster. > Forcing their hand at going public with their support could get them fired The request was to change the website of an open source project, not for the webmaster to personally declare anything about their beliefs. Of course it is possible (though unlikely) that there is some threat to the webmaster's safety or livelihood that would prevent them from taking certain actions regarding the project's website, but in that case, the responsibility over the project's website should probably be more evenly distributed.
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