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After dating lots of people, one of the major factors in what made me decide to build a life with my wife was that I could count on her to be a reliable partner
by cortesoft 6y ago
After dating lots of people, one of the major factors in what made me decide to build a life with my wife was that I could count on her to be a reliable partner. That is soooo huge when choosing someone you are going to build a family with. It is way more important than any sort of animal sexual attraction.
- downerending 6y agoI guess so, but I definitely wouldn't tell her that you're not really highly sexually attracted to her.
- dingaling 6y agoWhy not? After 12 years of marriage I told my wife that and it cleared the air. We both knew it but it remained unsaid for so long and had been having an adverse affect on the relationship. Yes, it was a tough and emotional week. But things are better out in the open and we have started to rebuild the relationship on love, not lust. She did ask if I was having affairs. But I honestly said that I'm finished with sex now, I've just no time or interest in playing the chasing games. There are more important things in life.
- downerending 6y agoGlad it turned out, but that sounds like a risky and hard road.