Obesity kills sex drive for both sexes, in many different ways. Most people don't like snoring whales in their bedroom with heart problems. I also suspect the

Obesity kills sex drive for both sexes, in many different ways. Most people don't like snoring whales in their bedroom with heart problems. I also suspect the typical advice of hitting the gym, for men, results in bulking, and is not that attractive to women either. Since it doesn't result in tall and slender, a typical preference, most of the time. What does work, just from comparing to Europe, is consistently walking everyday for long distances and dressing nice.