Is it not also a fallacy to fail to fully consider alternative explanations (see: fallacy fallacy, argument by dismissal)? Most engineers are fully comfortable

Is it not also a fallacy to fail to fully consider alternative explanations (see: fallacy fallacy, argument by dismissal)? Most engineers are fully comfortable with being corrected in cases of objective fact. What you're doing here is not that, it's instead insisting that any analysis other than your own is mushy-brained nonsense with a near-total lack of social niceties. Consider the alternative explanation that people don't like the way you're aggressively presenting your ideas and failing to (at least outwardly) seriously consider the ideas of others in kind.