Yeah, you're the person he's talking about. If that's the way he can better communicate with his wife and she's ok with it, that's all that matters. I used to

Yeah, you're the person he's talking about. If that's the way he can better communicate with his wife and she's ok with it, that's all that matters. I used to randomize calendar events on my phone to remind me to call grandma, see dad, game with my brother, etc. It was very robotic looking and if I told anyone about it, I got weird looks but years later, I have great relationships with everyone in my family because I basically trained myself and the people I reached out to communicate well and not let conversation be awkward. If OP kept this up, I bet his relationship at worst would be the same and more likely healthier.