Oh yeah totally agree. Leadership roles mean some tasks become 'only you' tasks. Part of that is a radically changed power dynamic. Asking someone to pick up

Oh yeah totally agree. Leadership roles mean some tasks become 'only you' tasks. Part of that is a radically changed power dynamic. Asking someone to pick up a coffee for you suddenly isn't just a question they can feel safe saying no to - favors aren't favors anymore. Don't put your direct reports in that position, ever. That Band of Brothers scene w/ Winters and Compton about playing poker with the troops actually covers this idea really well.