Maybe try meeting someone who is not "everyone", and also make sure you don't fall into the same trap yourself? If you meet a person you settle down with, it do

Maybe try meeting someone who is not "everyone", and also make sure you don't fall into the same trap yourself? If you meet a person you settle down with, it doesn't stop attraction to other people, but you have a choice to limit that expression to managable levels, or live with the hell of not doing that.