I guess I should amend the last part of what I said with, "[is not useful] ...when considering my own behavior." With regard to evaluating others, I agree that

I guess I should amend the last part of what I said with, "[is not useful] ...when considering my own behavior." With regard to evaluating others, I agree that this mindset can definitely help foster increased kindness, which in many circumstances is one of the most useful outcomes you can hope for. For example, it does seem fairly clear at this point that the retribution/punishment model of treating lawbreakers causes more problems than it solves.