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I'm not sure if you are generally lamenting about people's sensitivities, or you are just dismissing jokes about firing as "not a big deal", and that "people sh
by salehenrahman 6y ago
I'm not sure if you are generally lamenting about people's sensitivities, or you are just dismissing jokes about firing as "not a big deal", and that "people should get over it".
Let me repeat what the author of the article posted: DO NOT joke about firing people.
You don't need to have a thin skin to take comments about firing seriously.
When a manager said that they'd fire you, it's only smart to begin looking for work elsewhere.
The moment they said that, it's the moment that they have demonstrated the following:
- your employment status is precarious, under that manager (yes, employment is generally precarious, but at a company with a good culture, it's the company's financials that predicates your employment status, not financials plus your manager)
- your manager has demonstrated that their power has gone to their head, potentially leading to bad decisions under their management
- assuming they were joking about firing you in the first place, your manager's words regarding anything related to your job function cannot be generally taken seriously
This is not a thin skin issue. This is a bad manager issue. Start looking for work elsewhere.