Ask your parents or grandparents. My grandfather worked a crap job to provide for two kids, while going to med school nights and weekends. My grandmother had a

Ask your parents or grandparents. My grandfather worked a crap job to provide for two kids, while going to med school nights and weekends. My grandmother had a p/t job and a side business. They managed. Their story doesn’t seem unusual for their generation (right after WW2). By comparison my f/t job with three kids and a consulting business on the side (which I now do full-time) seemed easy. You just do it, try to maintain balance, look forward. There’s no secret.