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The problem with people who are shy is that we are swamped with advices from people who are not. Seriously. Stop. EDIT: That being said I can give one piece of
by rokhayakebe 18y ago
The problem with people who are shy is that we are swamped with advices from people who are not. Seriously. Stop.
EDIT: That being said I can give one piece of advice to guys who are shy. Work out. Work out. Work out. You will be amazed how much NATURALLY produced testosterones can affect your behavior.
- geuis 18y agoI can attest to this. I have been working out heavily for a few months and the change in how I feel is drastic. Definitely a recommend thing to do. Its actually fun, and this coming from a guy who's spent many a year hating exercise.
- gaius 18y agoIt is not just a hormonal thing, it's psychological too. Nothing beats deadlifting a heavily loaded bar, new personal best, and standing at the top thinking fuck, yeah! Impossible to do that and not build confidence.
- alyx 18y agoImho, you're confusing shyness with a lack of confidence.
- dcurtis 18y agoThey go hand-in-hand, and are almost inseparable.
- rokhayakebe 18y agoConfidence is like a roller coaster: lots of highs and lows. The few times I hit the highs (for reasons that make sense only to Moi) I am still shy. I believe we are shy because we make too many assumptions and judgments about our surroundings. And most of the time those are totally wrong.