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>In a society truth is less important than relationships Then he should have create a relationship of honesty. it's good to know that somebody wont lie to you,

>In a society truth is less important than relationships Then he should have create a relationship of honesty. it's good to know that somebody wont lie to you, even to make you happy.

chongli 6y ago
It’s not lying, it’s called make believe [1]. Children play this way all the time. It’s a healthy part of development. Adults play along with Santa Claus, the Easter bunny, and the tooth fairy. When kids get older and figure it out, they generally have fond memories of it. The only cases I’ve heard of where it was upsetting was when somebody else spoiled it for them, just like how people spoiled the end of the 6th Harry Potter book. Adults do it all the time as well, when we consume fiction. It feels good to escape our current reality and inhabit another, magical reality, if only for a while. It’s a healthy thing to do as long as it doesn’t lead to a breakdown in our relationships and other aspects of our lives. [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Make_believe https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Make_believe
- 08-15 6y ago
  "If the child believes that the make believe situation is reality, then he/she is misinterpreting the situation rather than pretending." Are you sure Wikipedia supports your assertion?
- natmaka 6y ago
  Interesting and useful information, thank you! I'm really more and more convinced that each and every human group has such foundations ("myths"), and that the larger the group, the larger the distortion between the myth and reality.
  - lowdose 6y ago
    You have to read some of the work of Douglas Holt, cultural branding. https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Douglas_Holt3/publication/297468415_Cultural_brand_strategy/links/57d4193208ae6399a3921fab/Cultural-brand-strategy.pdf https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Douglas_Holt3/publicati...

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>In a society truth is less important than relationships Then he should have create a relationship of honesty. it's good to know that somebody wont lie to you,

by jon_elbrook 6y ago

>In a society truth is less important than relationships Then he should have create a relationship of honesty. it's good to know that somebody wont lie to you, even to make you happy.

chongli 6y ago
It’s not lying, it’s called make believe [1]. Children play this way all the time. It’s a healthy part of development. Adults play along with Santa Claus, the Easter bunny, and the tooth fairy. When kids get older and figure it out, they generally have fond memories of it. The only cases I’ve heard of where it was upsetting was when somebody else spoiled it for them, just like how people spoiled the end of the 6th Harry Potter book. Adults do it all the time as well, when we consume fiction. It feels good to escape our current reality and inhabit another, magical reality, if only for a while. It’s a healthy thing to do as long as it doesn’t lead to a breakdown in our relationships and other aspects of our lives. [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Make_believe https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Make_believe
- 08-15 6y ago
  "If the child believes that the make believe situation is reality, then he/she is misinterpreting the situation rather than pretending." Are you sure Wikipedia supports your assertion?
- natmaka 6y ago
  Interesting and useful information, thank you! I'm really more and more convinced that each and every human group has such foundations ("myths"), and that the larger the group, the larger the distortion between the myth and reality.
  - lowdose 6y ago
    You have to read some of the work of Douglas Holt, cultural branding. https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Douglas_Holt3/publication/297468415_Cultural_brand_strategy/links/57d4193208ae6399a3921fab/Cultural-brand-strategy.pdf https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Douglas_Holt3/publicati...